How often do you feel soothing or liberating, genuine, heartfelt human touch?I’m Anita, practitioner of Blue Lights Center and I welcome you to Conscious Touch Ritual: the “space” where you are free to be you in this moment- with no taboos. My scope of work are Emotions (related to the Shadows) and untangling Emotional attachments through the Ritual.

Conscious Touch Ritual™ is two hours Ritual of reconnecting with our Body and Heart through intention. When there is honest and pure intention, focusing on the words and thoughts that we say, we actually pray. Dr. Spiegel claims that praying affects the deeper part of the brain; parts that are involved in self-reflection, emotion handling and self-soothing. Following intuitive touch/subtle massage, accompanied with tibetan bowls sound, DNA healing frequency music and only inevitable coaching (powerful questions) to support releasing any aspect of blockage: emotional, physical, mental and/or spiritual. Blocks are basically emotions stuck as consequence of suppressing them (sometimes unconsciously).

Six main („negative“) emotions that we usually suppress are fear, anger, shame, grief, disgust and guilt. We suppress them in particular parts of our body and it can be literally anywhere. For women, very often that place is their womb. For men, very often that place is their heart.

Removing the blocks from the body brings many fantastic deeds: personal power, creativity and confidence which lead to more (self)respect (at home and at work), ability to influence, flow and feeling of determination to achieve personal/work goals, AND finally dropping the role of victim, realising that with – seemingly dreading – responsibility for own life also comes the power to make things best way (my heartfelt way of doing things).

If Conscious Touch Ritual™ resonates with you, don’t hesitate to book your session on or 04/2432930. I’m awaiting you with open heart.


Cognitive Behavior by Erin Leroux

Do you ever feel stuck in a continuous negative thought pattern? Or maybe you have trouble imagining or picturing a positive outcome or overthink almost every situation? Maybe you are hyper focused on negatives and have a perception that about your physical, mental or emotional self?  Well, you are not alone. Many people suffer from these distorted thought patterns and are constantly battling with themselves and their negative thoughts, which in turn, can cause a whole lot of anxiety, self-esteem, confidence and depressive issues and feelings…  kind of like you’re trapped in your own mind? – Sound familiar?

Well it is my job at BlueLights Wellness as their Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT), Counselor & Coach to help you on your journey to discovering the roots behind these negative thought patterns and to work together to get you back to feeling like your best possible self. Learning to love yourself for WHO you are and finding internal happiness, confidence and contentment within.

So Let’s dive a little deeper into the meaning of CBT. CBT is a type of psychotherapeutic treatment that helps our clients understand the thoughts and feelings that influence certain behaviors. ( Ie; distorted eating, addiction to substance/alcohol, anxiety, etc.) During the course of treatment, the focus is on helping our client deal with a very specific problem and help them learn how to identify and change destructive thought patterns that have a negative influence on their behavior and emotions. I encourage them to look for the evidence that supports these thoughts or that counter these thoughts. We do this by slowing down the thoughts and re-examining their destructive thought pattern. With this they are then able to take a more realistic and objective look at the thoughts that are contributing to their feelings. Being aware of the negative thoughts people are able to start engaging in healthier thinking patterns. The focus is to retrain our thought pattern and replace the negative irrational thoughts with positive, more realistic thoughts. While we cannot control every aspect of the world around us, we can take control of how we interpret and deal with things in our environment.  Sound Easy? Well it may, however when we have spent numerous years having these distorted views or have been practicing negative self talk, it can take a lot of focus and time to retrain our thought pattern, however what I like to tell my clients is that whatever way we have trained our brain to think, we can most certainly Un-train those thoughts and re-train our brains to think and act in a less impulsive and more positive way.

Erin Leroux

Wellness Practitioner

Yoga & Reiki Therapy

My name is Dalia and I’m a holistic wellness practitioner with Blue Lights. I offer yoga therapy, Reiki healing, and Theta healing sessions. These offerings provide a well-rounded approach to mind, body and soul wellbeing. If you’re not familiar with these modalities, I’m going to delve a little into each:

Yoga therapy:

Did you know that we carry a lot of our emotions and stress in our bodies? There are yoga poses that are specific to unblocking these emotions, and you get a good workout out of it. A yoga therapy session will begin with an intake to understand what your needs are and what you’d like to work on whether your goals are physical or more emotional, I will customize a yoga flow curated specifically to meet your needs. Through a mixture of breathing exercises, physical poses, and meditations you will leave the session feeling lighter, more in tuned with your body, and definitely more relaxed.

Reiki Healing:

Reiki is a hands-on healing through which “universal energy” is transferred in order to encourage emotional or physical healing. I work specifically with chakra blocks. Chakras are your spiritual energy centres, think of them like energetic vortexes that absorb and carry a lot of your emotions, beliefs, and tendencies. A reiki session aims to unblock these energy portals to facilitate clearing these negative charges and allow for a more positive and healing flow of vital energy in your body.

Theta Healing:

Theta healing is a more cognitive approach to healing as it works with your subconscious mind to identify and clear negative beliefs, in essence rewiring your brain to create a more positive reality. If you’re more inclined to wanting to be aware of what your blocks are, where they come from, and what you can do to change them, then this is a modality for you.

A good idea is to start off with a yoga therapy session to feel more in tuned and stronger with your body. You might want to follow that up with a Reiki session so that you become more aligned. With that alignment comes awareness, so a Theta healing session to unblock whatever is stopping you from living your best life could come next. Reach out today, I’m happy to answer any of your questions and to work closely with you to ensure mind, body and soul happiness.

Be the best version of yourself today and email


Dalia (Reiki & Yoga therapist at Blue Lights Wellness)

Bringing meaning to life….

Difficult partnership, neglecting parents, bullying at school, demanding relatives, failures…. all these factors influence what individuals think of themselves and can be perceived subjectively as very traumatic. If not processed by the brain and packed as memories, they might intensively influence abilities to cope, attachment styles and emotional responses. It happens due to the fact that traumatic experiences, which are too difficult for the developing brain to be dealt with, are stored in our brain and get activated each time a person is exposed to similar distress, causing inadequate to situation reactions. Important to mention, that such activation is unconscious and can impair significantly well-being. Perceived symptoms like outbursts, restlessness, emotional deregulation, depression or anxiety are therefore often results of unprocessed traumas experienced during early developmental years. In order to function with such difficult baggage, one tends to develop mechanisms of coping, which might be also maladaptive and result in further distress.  Such vicious circle may impair normal functioning, learning, sleeping patterns or decrease meaning of life. Hence, trauma informed approach, allow not only to address the symptoms, but also to uncover roots of distress.

One way to provide trauma-based therapy is EMDR intervention, which helps to remove manifestation of past experiences from the here and now moment. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing and as therapeutic technique, it incorporates eye movement or other types of bipolar stimulation, in order to encourage brain to process distressing information.  Processing of the disturbing events aids in removal of their emotional weight from present time and hence support healing. Also, EMDR decreases unnecessary activated constant state of alertness and helps in acceptance, compassion and resiliency building. Despite the fact that EMDR has been developed and shown efficacy in treatment of post-traumatic stress disorder, it is also showing promising results in addressing trauma of complex and prolonged character, eating disorders, substance addiction, anxiety and depression.

With recent development in the field of psychology but also neuroscience and neuroimaging it is now confirmed that there is no clear cut between what’s cognitive, physiological and emotional and all these three dimensions are interconnected. Out therapist – Magdalena is therefore, engaging client to work in collaborative manner while providing holistic, eclectic approach which blends EMDR trauma oriented intervention with typical talk therapy addressing irrational believes and disturbing thoughts, simultaneously practicing mindfulness techniques for the clients to develop abilities of self-regulation and relaxation.

If one is able to separate from past traumas, the life here and now becomes more meaningful….

Magdalena Mosanya

EMDR & Trauma: An Integrative Approach to Therapy

Everyone at one point, experienced stressful event. It might have been a minor incident like a spoiled coffee on shirt just before the meeting, or something slightly more affecting like a car crash. Fewer have gone through major distressing situations like natural disaster or war. The traumas of small or big effects, are accompanying our life since birth. Wait a minute? “No” – you might say- “My life has been quite peaceful and mostly happy, and I can’t really relate to those statements at all. That might be true and indeed, most of the people are able to cope with traumas and distress with inherent coping mechanisms. Most of us would therefore, agree with wise statements like “Time cures wounds”, and “What does not kill you, strengthens you”. Yet, if we look closely at our life there might be some events, which we forgot or do not treat as traumatic, or in some cases have been successfully repressed to our unconscious. If they are closed and processed to the “past shelve” by our skillful mind, that’s great. However, the integration and processing abilities of our brain might sometimes be jeopardized and result in some emotional states or thoughts left unprocessed. In such case, later on, in our present life, we might find it difficult to deal with daily life stressors. It may show that during intense moments our mind comes back to those forgotten but not processed events or feelings and experiences them as if they were still present. We might unconsciously be triggered by small distresses to experience emotions related to much bigger traumas from past all over again.

In general, there are two types of traumas that affect people, namely Traumas with capital “T”, which are the colossal events causing distress in global understanding, like catastrophes, natural disasters, physical abuse and life threating events. These happenings are usually related to Post Traumatic Stress Disorders (PTSD) and recognized as such. People experiencing Traumas of such kind, are usually met with compassion and relevant care. There are, however, traumas of a different nature which are being experienced subjectively. People going through difficult relationships, psychological abuse, bullying, mobbing or distress of any other kind on daily basis, might react similarly to the ones experiencing Trauma with capital T.

These experiences may significantly interfere with their health and well being. Subjective traumas may not be seen or recognized by significant others or even by a person her/himself. Yet, the powerful emotions related to it may affect negatively self-concept, self-esteem and self-efficacy, and therefore have adverse impact on various life aspects. Those unprocessed emotional states may lead to anxiety, phobias, lack of acceptance and strong cognitive dissonance as well as dissociations in both children and adults.

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is one of the most researched forms of psychotherapy with strong scientific background supporting its effectiveness. EMDR incorporates eye movement or other types of bipolar stimulation, in order to encourage brain to process information from all physiological brain regions.  Hence, it is regarded as a holistic approach to psychotherapy, which addresses all three composites of human being – Cognition, Affective States and Physiology. It engages therapist and client to work together on the matrix of memories. EMDR is recommended by World Health Organization.

EMDR sessions are available with our EMDR Therapist & Family Counselor Magdalena Mosanya

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Is Mindfulness For You?

Is Mindfulness for you?

If you’re struggling with depression, anxiety or insomnia, you probably would have thought about Mindfulness. Mindfulness means focusing your attention inwards and maintaining a moment-by-moment awareness of thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations and the surroundings.

The key components of mindfulness are thus awareness of one’s current feelings and thoughts in the present moment, a deliberate and conscious direction of attention towards them, and acceptance in a non-judgmental way. During mindfulness, you are encouraged to tune into what you are feeling or thinking in the present moment, reserving any judgment and avoiding ruminating about the past or daydreaming about the future. A growing body of research points to the numerous benefits of mindfulness; practicing it on a regular basis can not only relieve depression and anxiety and boost energy levels but has also been shown to change your brain structure. Most studies confirm that group courses may be just as beneficial as individual sessions but practicing mindfulness on your own could make it easier for you to focus and remain aware of your present feelings and thoughts rather than be distracted by your surroundings. If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression or tend to ruminate excessively, mindfulness can greatly improve your mental state.

In terms of duration, there are no set rules about how long you should practice mindfulness but studies demonstrate that 8 weeks of mindfulness practice can lead to long-lasting brain changes along with increased well-being. However, even a single mindfulness session can greatly enhance your mental health; a study from 2015, for instance, found that a session of mindfulness meditation leads to decreases in negative mood.

In short, if you would like to reduce the brain chatter, enjoy lower stress levels, greater focus and enhanced well-being and are willing to dedicate half an hour daily, then mindfulness might be just the perfect match for you.

So, how can you know if mindfulness is something that could work for you? In general, everyone can practice mindfulness, regardless of age, gender or background. The only to find out if Mindfulness is for you, is to give it a try!

Blue Lights Wellness offers you, individual Mindfulness Sessions, with a duration of 50 minutes, where the practitioner will guide you through meditation and focus on your breathing and awareness. Individual sessions are offered as single session or as 4 biweekly program!

Introductory offer of 10% discount on your first session till December 5th available now! Book your session with our practitioner Jeanina via